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i have a good friend, who i have had over my house many times. i have a lot of fun with her, & enjoy having her over, but she has never invited me over her house. i know her dad & mom pretty well, so i am pretty sure she's no hiding anything. anyways, i wouldn't want to be rude & invite myself over, but i really would like to go over her house one day, considering we're always either out or at my house, but never hers. what can i do to solve this "problem"?
thanks!

Bring it up casually into your conversations, or subtly hint at it...like while you're talking, kinda go, "Hey...how come we never hang out?"

Or if that doesn't work, just ask her about it. I used to never invite my friends over my house because I thought my house was just too boring and I wanted them to have a good time. But when my friends asked me about it, and I explained to them why, they said it didn't really matter, so now I invite them over all the time. Sometimes confrontation is the way to go.

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