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Hey everyone!!! I have gone through alot of problems in my life similar to yours, so i think ill be able to help alot of you. I am always open to new questions so ask away!! i hope i can get some great feedback from you all!!!

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ok there was this boy,
and he is my best friend's ex boyfriend.
but she still has feelings for him.
but he broke up with her.
but first time I saw him I had a crush on him too. I didnt tell my best friend, I couldent do that to her! but he had a football game and they won. my friend went to go to the rest room after the game. and I waited on the bentaches the the boy came up to me and sat by me. he said hi. I thought my friend would say it was ok just to have a confersation. then so we talked. the bathroom was like a couple minnets away. then right when my friend came she saw me and him holding hands!
she got mad but after a week she forgave me. that friday we were planning to go to a party. and he was there. soon my friend decided to leave but it was his house and he told me he had to show me somthing. I told him no beacuse of what happened. he talked me into it. then it was his room and you know what happened next yes we had sex.
but now at school I see him and he smiles. I hate keeping this from her.
I think he really likes me but so do i. but my friend will hate me!!!!! what do I do!!!!!!!??

What you neeed to do is you need to tell your friend the truth, she will never forgive you if you keep hiding this from her. yes she is obviously going to be upset but you know if shes your TRUE friend evetually she will forgive you it's just it may take a very long time. But the best advice i can give is to tell her and hope for the best.
Now as for this guy, dont go there, shell be mad enough about what happened she doesnt wanna have to deal with you with him also, and if he would do that to his ex-girlfriend with her best friend than he cant be trusted. because he wont change his ways and how will you know if he does that to you.
What you need to do is put yourself in your friends shoes...
Your friends will be with you forever, he wont....trust me, tell her and leave him behind, hes not worth it...
need any more help just ask...good luck

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(Rating: 5) thanks,
and also thank-u for spending a couple minnets of your time to help my sittuation.
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