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I really like this boy,
And my best friend dose too.
I know I shouldent beacuse she's my best friend but I cant stop thinking about him. I told her but she doesent seem to care. But then I asked her how to get his attention b/c they are friends. she told me to wear boy cloths like she was. So I did i dont know if he really has noticed me.But my Best friend can get a little jealous and stubern somtimes, so I dont know if my friend is lying not to get his attention or if she is telling the truth. b/c u know she likes him and a rumer is going around that he likes gymnast's and prepy girls. but my friend barly ever lie's to me.
who should I belive? What should I do????
-Lanie Day underhill
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hey! i know it tuff and you feel like hey maybe my friend swrewing me over because she wants him for herself. maybe this is true or maybe not. but you and your friend have to come to an agreement who is more important your friend or the boy who doesnt notice you. me i wouldnt wouldnt go with him because your friend is sending you a sign saying no i dont want you to go with him it like if she cant have him neither can you. but remember boys will come and boys will go but a good strong loving friendship will last a lifetime dont go with him if its going to hurt your friendship and chances are if she likes him too even though thats your best friend she going to want him to notice her more than he notices you. so the question is do i go with him or dont i? if i do whats going to happen? your friend could stop talking to you and even if she does it hard to get past a crush and the friendship will never be the same but if you dont go with him then he may actually like you and then you will never no what i could be. i know it is troubling but if he does like you he should like you for you not for being a gymnasts or prepy if thats not you then dont try to change if he hasnt noticed you already then he isnt. he should like you for you and nothing less than that. your friend may be jealous and its not that she doesnt want you to be happy she just doesnt want you to have him yeah thats selfish but if she is truely your best friend youll try to get over him it will be hard i know ive been there but whats more important friend,best friend or boy, boy that you have to change yourself just for him to notice you because i you change into a gymnast or prepy hes going to like gymnast and prepy and never truely like you for you and he will never get to know you. so if you dont want to forget him introduce yourself to him as a friend let him get to know you then decide if he likes you and you still like him and wait untill he ask you out dont ask him out start off as friends get to know him then take it from there. good luck hope this helps you
-attractive
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