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The problem I have is speaking in front of people. I get sweaty, nervous, my heart starts beating, and I just can't talk. How do I cure this? Is there a possible way to overcome it? Or am I stuck with it for life?

I'm a 14 year old male. (link)
this is normal for a teen.
and we all go through this stage.. some last for a few years.. some for a few months.
i had a shorter case of this, and it was about a year.

this year i can talk to BIG groups .. no problem.
some things that i did ..
was i made friends in my classes.. so i would know the people i was talking to .. when i was talking in front of them i didnt bore them, because i would fit my speach to the things that would keep them awake.

another thing that i did was i didnt just jump infront of the class make a perfect speach, no way.. i wish.
you can make note cards when you make a speach, so you will have what you want to talk about in front of you *but dont read off of that*
and i started off just looking at one person, and then i start looking around the room.
believe it or not, but it's easier to look around the room .. then in one spot. because when you move your head and body around you dont have to concintrate on some one to look at.

you just have to be self confident and believe that you can do it.


you can also go to a speach class.. and it teaches you how to make a speach.

but all will go swell .. good luck &hearts'


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