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Q: My ex Boyfriend and I walk home from the bus everyday and today, we were talking about what we used to do.. (I gave him a handjob) and then when I got home I got a phone call from him and he was saying that do you want to be friends with benefits and I want to.. because I dont know if we could be in a relationship but i really like him and I dont know if I should or not because I feel like im being used but I want to be more than friends but less than a relationship. Because if I do this I have 2 guys that I'm friends with benefits with.. And this is my first time ever having guys that are friends with benefits.. but me and this guy have known eachother for 4 years and have gone out a lot but im physically attracted to him and he is to me.. so please help me.. My options are I should do it and have fun or not do it and not know what im missing but may save my self from hurt.. not sure.. because when it comes to this guy there is a lot of physical attraction but we always are friends in the end..


THANK YOU TO ALL THAT HELP!!!

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I'll rate 5's
being friends with benefits means the guy gets everything he wants...pleasure with no strings attached and a good rep aroound school...all it gives you is...yeah some pleasure but a bad rep around school and possibly hurting you if you develop stronger feelings for him...i dont think friends with benefits is a good idea... :]

Thank you!! you give great advice!

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