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with all that i hear going around especially in the media, its difficult for me to decide whether sexual orientation is a mental, psychological, or conscience choice. do people decide to do it out of their own free will? is it both? any help is appreciated - will rate (link)
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Hi there,
Personally I think it is a combination of all of those things.
I have quite a few gay friends and some of them are convinced they were "Born Gay" while others think that it is because of their upbringing and one was straight all of his life until he met a certain guy who he has now happily been with for 6 years!
Sexual orientation is completely personal preference, no one can MAKE you gay and no one can MAKE a gay person straight!
Bi-Sexual people are not people who can't make their mind up they are people that prefer to choose to have relationships with people of BOTH sexes! This is a choice made by them for whatever reason!
It brings us back to the age old question are we made who we are by nature or nurture. Are we destined to be the way we are from birth or is it the way in which we are brought up and our environmental surroundings that make us who we are.
As I said before I personally think it is a combination of both.
I hope this helped a little!
Mel xx
(P.s Great to see an intelligent question on here for once!! :o)
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Rating: 5
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great to see an intelligent responce on here too =)
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