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15, almost 16, female.
Little brother is 12 almost13.
we fight all the time. I try so hard to be nice. and most of the time I am nice. I am always sharing, and even if I getsomething new, I always share it, and I am tollerent of our different taste in music. He likes heavy rap and metal, and those are the two I despise. Although I enjoy love songs, they are not my favorite, he despises them tho.
I want to be a good big sister. I want him to come to me when he has a girlfriend, or when he has girl trouble, or something good to tell me. I want him to be able to come to me. Now when he needs to be driven to a friends house or somewhere with a friend, he despises when I drive, ( I have my permit) but, I know I need the practice so I can get my liscense, and My parents, of course, are with me, and they are okay with me driving my brother and his friends. But I will be getting my liscence in 5months, and I want him to want me to drive him. I want him to look up to me, and like it when I drive him or pick him up from places. I do try to set a good example too!!
Any tips? Is he just going through a stage? How can I be more tollerent when he is bad??
thank you so much in advance!!
-Kelsey-
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My sister and I don't get along either. It's normal. He is at the age where he thinks he can't trust anyone, but there is a way to show him that him not being able to trust anyone is not true. You need to show him that he can trust you and come to you for help as well as his parents/guardians. Brothers are hard to get along with because they are messy and always doing the wrong thing but showing him if he makes a wrong choice without anyones help will affect his life in a bad way. For exaple if his friends are forcing him to smoke, he should come up to you and ask you what to do. I would try taking him out somewhere and having some fun with him and talking with him in private. He'll be glad to have a big sister who is always there for him. I call one of my close friends ( he is 12) my brother and it is hard to get throught to him because he feels like his pride and madhood is being squshed when he can't solve something on his own. Try not to pry into your brother's life too much and when he is mad give him his space. Then later talk to him in private and ask if there is anything you can do to help.
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thank you so much! you helped a whole lot!!
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