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15, almost 16, female.
Little brother is 12 almost13.

we fight all the time. I try so hard to be nice. and most of the time I am nice. I am always sharing, and even if I getsomething new, I always share it, and I am tollerent of our different taste in music. He likes heavy rap and metal, and those are the two I despise. Although I enjoy love songs, they are not my favorite, he despises them tho.

I want to be a good big sister. I want him to come to me when he has a girlfriend, or when he has girl trouble, or something good to tell me. I want him to be able to come to me. Now when he needs to be driven to a friends house or somewhere with a friend, he despises when I drive, ( I have my permit) but, I know I need the practice so I can get my liscense, and My parents, of course, are with me, and they are okay with me driving my brother and his friends. But I will be getting my liscence in 5months, and I want him to want me to drive him. I want him to look up to me, and like it when I drive him or pick him up from places. I do try to set a good example too!!

Any tips? Is he just going through a stage? How can I be more tollerent when he is bad??

thank you so much in advance!!

-Kelsey-
k2204

Well, my sister and I are 10 years apart..this is the worst what you're going thru right now.We used to fight really bad, like everyday.But its totally different now,shes 23 and im 13.Were like best friends.Although, im not sure if it will be the same for you, because hes a guy, and wants to be cool (like every other guy is),and hes only 12 and youre alot older, almost 16, more mature, and out of the stage hes going through. Give it some time, when he's older I bet you guys will be friends because you sound like a great sister.I hope it all works out! ♥

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(Rating: 5) awe thank you so much! that really helps! thats good that you and your sistah are good friends!!!
X♥X♥ Kel
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