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Q: ok well i told blake that i loved him and idk im anxious to get the reply (i sent an email) like i really want the email to see what he has to say. but i havent gottin it yet. its only been like a day since i sent it. but i mean i know he checks his email like everyday. could he be avoiding the email because hes scared that it says something. i dont know, but i really want the email. is there anyway i can hint to him to check his email with out having me sound like im desperate for him to check his email?
Either Blake hasn't gotten around to checking his e-mail yet, or he's avoiding telling you how he really feels.

If it's the second option, that's a bad thing.

Don't dwell on that though, find something better to do (like watch TV, or play video games, or not wait around your computer). He checks his e-mail everyday. He'll get around to reading your e-mail.

If not today, then tommorow. And if you don't get a response, just ask him if he got your e-mail. If he didn't, and he's curious about what it said, then tell him in person.

Telling a guy in person is always better anyway.

If he just said no, then chances are he did read it, and doesn't want to tell you that he doesn't have feelings for you. You can either:

-Tell him you'll resend it, if you really believe he didn't get the email.
-Or say the ever classic "Oh, okay." and drop it.

Hope you get your e-mail.

thanks, i hope i get my email too!

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TheCynic
Love hurts. That's why I'm here to explain to you exactly what your significant other (or hopefully significant other) means, truthfully and unfortunately painfully.

In other words, I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, unless I really believe it could happen.

If you don't believe me, well, I can give you proof. My way of thinking worked for me and my wonderful boyfriend of three years (I love you Matt!)

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