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Q: i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
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Hmm.. Well its okay to be lesbian, you know. Okay, its normal to think other girls are pretty or gorgeous or they have great boobs. Its sometimes jealousy or just admiration. An dI have kissed girls before, its not a big deal. Just fun with friends. Anyway..So you might not be. But it sounds sorta like you are.

On Dr. Phil.. he said a lot of times gay men are formed because they had a bad relationship with their father. I'm not sure, but lesbians may be formed by bad relationships with your mother. And i dont think its genetics, it may be, but i doubt it. Its just the way you feel.

To get out of it, theres not really a way. Its just your feelings. But if you want to try, try spending less time with girls and more time with guys, hott guys.


lol i like hot guys. yeah i really dont have 2 much of a relationship with my parents so that might be it. thanks!

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