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thanks for adding me on msn. i think i came on once today looking forward to chting 2 you, but you wernt online. sanj i was going through the advice you have given people. in one of them you rote

''If you can master a few simple skills of body language. You can read their relationship just by watching them, i love doing this with people in school, practise makes you better. Message me back if you want a few simple skills i can teach you.''

i found that realy cool. before,i took your advice and looked up 'reading body language' on google. i wana say thanks for that coz i learnt some interesting fings. but what you wrote in your advice sounded amzing lol. and i was wondering if you could help me by telling me about those few simple skills. and you mentioned school, and that sounded like exactly what i was looking for.
i know alot of people at school that confuse me to much. there are like 5 different boys that keep playing with my mind in school. can you please teach me some of the tricks you use in school, they would help me ALOTTT!! i would love to go to school one day and find out exactly what is going through some peoples minds about me. i know im sounding desperate, but the things i have to deal with at school are to much.
thanks so much sanj

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yeah, i know what you mean by wanting to know exactly what people are thinking and feeling.
Once you have learnt the skills, you must watch and practise them for ages, its taken me ages to master, but it is definatly worth it.

A warning though, every body's body language is different, so if two people do the same body language it may not mean the exact same thing, so keep your eyes open.

Ok a few simple signs, its in the persons eyes. I have never truely tested this but it has come up many times when i have searched, when someone is looking at someone they like, there eyes usually dialte (get bigger, the pupil bit). But this can be read wrong because if they are facing the sun you will get an opposite effect etc, so test it in the right conditions. Secondly, the way they are standing, if they stand square on, means like they are giving you there full attention, but if the are standing side-ways, there mind is usually off somewhere else in other words they would rather be somewhere else. When talking, if the person tends to lean in a little closer than normal (coming into your own space) tends to mean they have a liking for you. Umm, while talking with the person, if the person has constant eye contact with you for around 7-8 secs, usually means they are interested in what you are saying. But if there eyes tend to look everywhere but at you tends to mean they dont give 2 shits to what you are saying basically lol.

There are loads more too do with different topics, message me back with a topic e.g. lying, relationship, friendship etc etc

Sanj :D

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