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so im 14/f and im so called "different" from everyone else. i dont look the same as them because i have my own style and im myself. being a freshman sucks too. anyway i dont have a boyfriend. i mean boys talk to me all the time i guess they just dont like me? This one even walks me to class and sits by me all the time. So does that mean he likes me? How can i tell if they like me?

I have no idea how many times i have reccomended this. But body language is the key. Read up on some body language tips off the internet or a book maybe, this should help you figure out if there is an attraction between the two of you.

Secondly, i am a 14 year old male, and i have no gf either. I know loads of people who have a gf/bf. The key to relationship is not to rush into it. Dont go and look for a bf just beacsue all your friends may have one. When the time is right, you will meet somone.

I know a boy who did not have his 1st girlfriend till the age of 16, but when he finally did get his 1st gf they were great together both so happy. The have broken up now, but it was out of respect. They both decided they wanted to see other people, and till this day they still remain friends.

I think it is really good you have your own style and be yourself. Most girls nowadays try to be someone they are not, just to impress someone. But being yourself is good as someone will fall in love with you, not some fake person you are pretending to be but the real you.

Hope i have helped..message me if you need any further help

Sanj

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