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Age: 24
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i don't know what to expect from this but here goes.
everytime i really start liking a woman i always end up being "like a brother", this last time seemed to have taken the life out of me to the point where i start feeling resentfull towards woman and sociaty in general.
I really want a girlfriend, and always try to be just myself, but nobody seems interested, EVER. i've never had a girlfriend, i really can't believe that i'm such a big loser.
I really don't know what to do anymore :( (link)
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You don't have a girlfriend because you are too focused on the concept. You aren't a loser, you just haven't seemed to realize that you can't look for love, you have to wait for it to find you. There is absolutely nothing you can do about this. Why do you make "having a girlfriend" your focus? Right now is your time to be enjoying your friends and single-ness, sort of cementing your identity. It will happen when it's time, if you keep pushing for a relationship in any way shape or form then it turns woman off. When you meet someone who you have an instant connection with, you'll know. So will they, and it will happen without all the stress. Don't waste aother minute even thinking about this, call up your friends and plan a night out without any hopes about this issue.
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Rating: 5
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thought bout what u said for a while,
ur right i need to relax with this girl, she just isn't interested.
forgive me but im a tad slow with women, still think it doesn't just happen, soz but that sounds like something out of a disney movie.
im not this way w. all women, was only bout this one. o well
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