Hi!!I am Emily and i decided to give advice because i like helping people and see them happy...Others tell me that i am understanding and sociable. The only thing i know for sure is that i am possitive thinking! I have one sister and i am a very good friend with her. My best friends are Ann and Geogre. I share with them almost everything. I have a lot of friends and we go out together all the time. My hobby is acting and that's why i want to become an actress or an advisor.Of course i like giving advice. The last one is the best!!!
I like Justin Timberlake and Nick Carter very much because apart from their talent they are very hondsome too. I also like Britney and Alyssa Milano. I watch Charmed and Smalville but i like California teens very much too.
I think that we should smile more often and that's why this is my nickname!I also believe that everyone should be more spontaneous. Everyone should be a little bit more his/herself! And somethin else! A general advice from me to all you: Be you and live every minute in your life like being the last one... Only by doing it you will be really happy! Kisses!!!
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I have a girlfriend, let's say Jane. We've only officially been going out for two week, but we were going steady for about 2 weeks before that (making out all the time, not seeing anyone else but each other). Last week I met a new girl, Steph, through a friend. She is really cool and as this past week went by, I realized I like her more than Jane. Because I have a gf though, the friend that introduced us decided to try to hook my other friend up with Steph. I kept my feelings quiet to give him a a chance (he's never had a gf). He really likes her now. Just tonight Steph and I were talking and she told me she likes me more than my friend, and that she doesn't want to keep leading my friend on. I told her that I liked her too. Now I don't know what to do. Should I break up with Jane and date Steph, or break up with Jane and stay single for a while? Or should I just suck it up and stay together with Jane so my friends don't get mad at me for "invading" on my other friend's girl possibility? Either way someone's going to get hurt. What's the lesser poison? (link)
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Dear "really in trouble",
i am a girl and i know girls really well. So i would like to tell you something. We really hate boys who are with more than one girl. So the first thing you should do is to break up with Jane. You don't like her anymore, right? So, stop being with her...
Now, about you your friend and Steph... Look, i will tell you my opinion. If Steph was right and fair and would like you soooooo much she would not hook up with your friend. From the beginning. And she would break up with the other one before telling you that she likes you. You know what she is doing now? She is thinking like that:
"I am still with(your friend's name) but i like the other one more. I go and tell (your name) what i feel and if he tells me that he feels the same everything is fine for me. If not, i have the other one. We are still together."
I don't really find it right, neither for you nor for your friend. So, if i were you i would choose my friend. Remember that a friend is there for years.On the contray, a gf for a month or tow...
I am sure that it is not the best solution for you and the girls but it is for you and your friend. Remember that friendship is very important to our lives...
I really hope i helped because i can see that you are in trouble now. Good luck!!!
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