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Q: alright so me and this guy who we can call Eric have been together for about 2 weeks but we've known each other all our lives. We aren't going out (bf/gf) yet only because we go to dif schools and we can't hang out enough for him to get that right moment. Well, anyways, we talk on the phone a lot and that's pretty much our main communication because we're both so busy. Lately, when I've been calling him he always comes up with some excuse to not talk to me like "I have to drive up to Yarmouth, again." or "i have to go do my brother's laundry" and "I have to go hang out with my cousins". So like I'm fine with him doing other things because I totally don't want him to have to feel like I need to be #1 in his life. He knows this too. But now it's been like a week where we haven't really talked and everytime he comes up with an excuse, he says he'll call me back. Yeah, he never does. My question is, should I call him back or should I just wait until he calls me? Or do you think by not calling him anymore, it's putting our relationship at a risk?? please help I'm so confused. And I rate 5's if it's not crap. Thanks

Okay. I say dont call him back a lot, because then he might get sick of you, and guys apparently sometimes like hard to get. So call him back maybe once. But not a lot. Have you thought that maybe those excuses are very truthful? I mean, they might just be an excuse, but who knows? They might be truths.

Rating: 5

i hope for both our sakes they are the truths cause if i find out there not... ouch. but thanks! it was really good advice

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