Hola! The name's Caitlin, 20, college junior. Being an oddball myself, I love to give an encouraging word to those who are "different", but I'll awnser advice on anything.Tell me whatever you want. I'll awnser any question so long as it's sincere, and I'd really love the occaisonal joke or humerous post.
NOTE- If anyone here reads my column on a regular basis, you may notice that my feedback as dropped a bit suddenly. This is because I got a low L2 rating on a question I responded to. Please note that in general, I do pay strict attention to my grammar and such. I am an English major, after all. But at the time I was looking at that question, it was late at night, and I was tired. Focusing on giving what help I could, I didn't even notice the multiple spelling mistakes. Needless to say, I am rather upset at having my rating so damaged by this one event. Please realize that while I care deeply about the professional look of my responses, I care more about what I am SAYING. I'll try to be more observant in the future. Thank you.
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ok im 13/f and i dont know if im bi or not cuz like sometime si catch myself wanting to "do" things with girls and like i think gurls bodies are cute or "hot" and when i was 12 a girl hit on me went to kiss me and i DIDNT back away...please i dont know if im a lesbien or if girls are just like this please help me i rate REALLY high..thanks so much! (link)
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Hmm. That's a tough one because on the one hand, you are experiencing the "classic symptoms of discovering bisexual tendencies" (Doctor fancy language for realing you're a lesbian), but on the other hand feelings like that are often normal for girls around your age. Try talking to friends or just people in general who are homosexual. They might be able to help you sort things out. Talk to your parents, too, if they aren't too anti-gay. Try and decide wether you just admire other females or if you actually feel attracted to them. And, most importantly, if you do come to the conclusion that you are bisexual, remember- there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that. Be proud of who you are!
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