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Q: Ok, well my boyfriend, well I guess, ex-boyfriend and I broke up today. He told me that lately he's been confused about how he feels towards me as in like which way he likes me and all. And he's still really confused and he says he doesn't know why, he sayed this happens whenever he starts to really like someone alot. He's the first person I can actually say I love. I'm still very much in love with him, and it hurts. I don't know why he is so confused. Did I do something wrong? We've been going out for four months ever since december the 4th. I just don't understand this and it's killing me. What's wrong with me, what did I do, what can I do?
Hmm... My first question is do you really love him? Because most likely... you dont even know what love is, to say you love somebody. And you'll just look back on him years from now and think, 'I never loved him' But its an easy mistake. Second of all, if he doesn't like you any more, I'm sorry, but you can't do anything. You cant force him in to liking you again (wouldn't life be so much easier?) Sorry, kid. But you just gotta get over it, thats all you can do. Nothing is wrong with you, you probably didnt do anything, and theres nothing you can do.

I know my feelings you don't. I love him. I never said I believed I could force him into liking me because he still kinda does but we both decided to stay away for a while. And secondly I'm not a kid.

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