Ok...some people say teens give terrible advice but I am against that. We can experience things and relate to them. That is why we are such good columnists! Tell me some of your problems and I will do my best and give you some good advice.
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A friend of one of my friends recently commited suicide, and it's really taking a toll on my friend. (Let's just call her Jane haha) So I've tried talking to Jane, but every time I try to comfort her or w/e she says something really rude or just turns away. I know she's grieving, and I'm trying to tell myself it's nothing personal, but what she's doing is really hurtful. How should I tell her how this makes me feel? Is it too early? (This happened just a couple days ago.) Can anyone tell me how I should try and make her feel better? Thanks. (link)
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Helping a friend get over something tragic is hard. My advice is to let her be for a while until she can get a hold of herself. But, a good friend would do exactly what you are trying to do...so great job. If she is being rude it IS because she is grieving and torturing herself in such away that she can not think of anything else but her friend. It is a bit early, so in a week or so tell her. It may be a bit hard..but try it, it may work. that is my advice and goodluck!
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