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Q: A friend of one of my friends recently commited suicide, and it's really taking a toll on my friend. (Let's just call her Jane haha) So I've tried talking to Jane, but every time I try to comfort her or w/e she says something really rude or just turns away. I know she's grieving, and I'm trying to tell myself it's nothing personal, but what she's doing is really hurtful. How should I tell her how this makes me feel? Is it too early? (This happened just a couple days ago.) Can anyone tell me how I should try and make her feel better? Thanks.
Oh wow, thats tough. I think you should give Jane space. It must be really hard for her if she is acting in that way. So give her a little space, tell her your there for her, try being the best friend to her. And i suggest not telling her how you feel about her acting this way, it will make her feel worse. Just have a girls day out and get a manicure or go shopping or something. Or pick something out that she really loves to do.

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