Am a bit of a wrinkly now (i was 24 on 4/9/05, but I had the best birthday I've ever had in my whole entire life!!!) but I know an awful of stuff about an awful lot of stuff!
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Mel xxx
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i thought my real dad was in prison but the other day this man came to the door saying he was my dad had my birth certificate and everything im just confuse he said do i want to come out with him to get to know each other. But why has he waited al dis time to come see me im 16 now so do u think i should go and wat would i say to him (link)
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Hi there,
Wow! I bet that came as a bit of a shock!
The best advice I can offer you is to arrange a time and a place that you feel comfortable in and meet him.
That's if you want to. I imagine you must be feeling pretty confused about the whole thing.
I personally would meet him and ask all the questions that were going round inside my head as only he will be able to answer them.
Whatever you decide to do, whether you meet him adn want to start some sort of relationship with him , or meet him and then decide not to see him again or not meet him at all and have no contact, the choice is YOURS and no one elses. Don't feel pressurised by him or anyone else to do anything you don't want to.
Do what you want to do when you feel ready to do it!
Hope all goes the way you want it too.
Take Care!
Mel xx
(Please make sure that if you decide to meet him you tell someone what time you are going and when you will be back)
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