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E-mail: Kam98@rcn.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Age: 27
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Member Since: November 1, 2005
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Last Update: December 25, 2005
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Ever since my bf moved to another state for a job I feel as though a weight has been lifted. I think he was upset with me because the last time we talked over the phone before he moved I sounded so happy. Part of the reason for my happiness is that I had just started a new job with a really cool company after years of unemployment and dissatisfaction. Well my self esteem and confidence has totally gone up and when I told my bf how happy I was with things he didnt sound happy at all for me. I also think he was mad at me because he said he was thinking of stopping into the store before he left but I didnt sound to thrilled to see him. Well it's been a month since we've talked or emailed and you know what, I don't even miss him!!
My question is : Why do you think he was mad that I sounded so happy? Wouldnt he want me to be happy? And also I feel a little guilty for being glad that he is gone.
Does anyone have any insight? (link)
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It seems to me that you are more confident with your self and you are realizing he is not the one for you--kind of like when you were unemployed and disatisfied he was there b/c you had nothing else. Now you are doing good for yourself and moving forward and you may love him but he is not want you want. He should be happy for you but he was proboly upset that you werent hasppy this way when he was home dont sweat it you do you and keep the confidence. It has been a month already and maybe you should tell him you are going your separate way b/c the feelings are not their for him. You dont want to drag him on longer.Good luck
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Thankyou! i think I'm better off without him in my life, he was always depressing me anyways.
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