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Would you take offense if your gf/bf said that although they find you attractive, they would never want to see a "Picture" of you, or see you in your underwear? I'm sure you can guess of what nature.

My gf said this to me and I felt offended. I don't really know why. I guess it's no big deal, really. We were only kidding around and she said that. I'm pretty insecure about my looks, which doesn't help I suppose. So would you take offense, or am I making a big deal?

In response to your response. If she is religious she has probably been told that it is wrong to see someone else naked. I dated a guy for two years that was orthodox jewish and he was terrified of anything sexual. He wanted to stay a virgin until he was married. So psycologically speaking he created an aversion to sex in his mind, so that it was disgusting, so that he wouldn't have it. It might be what your girlfriend has been taught.

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(Rating: 5) Actually yes she is religious. We have been dating quite a long time - known each other for 2 years. I
Thanks for your help.
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