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Q: okay so theres this girl "n" that told everyone lies about me, "n" and i were really good friends over the summer...

Theres this girl "m" that ive became really really great friends with over the beginning of the school year.. un till "n" told everyone about me...

im peatty much the nicest person ull ever meet. i once offerd to take a bullet from a gun (no kidding) but then someone stopped me with a bullet proof vest...

i live in westchester county NY, and thats where all of the snotty people go, i admit i am snotty, but not as the others.

Ok so my friend imed me: heres the exact copy. but I obviously changed the screennames :)

this is with "c"

c: how dare you
me: who is this
c: your worst night mare
me: oh hi carly
c: how do you know it's me
me: your profile
c: o
me: lemme guess now you are going to go against me
c: ahhhh
c: yea pretty much
me: why
me: hello?
c: long story
me: well explain
me: i have till 10
me: because i really thought you were a good friend., i really did.... but now i guess not and i thought wrong

C signed off at 7:48 PM.

This is with "n2"

n2: did you get my ims before
me: no
n2: i dont want 2 be friends w/ you anymore
me: why?!
n2: b/c you were spreading lies about me to marisa and you told her lies about me and dont say no bcuz missa AND nicky said you admitted that and so did britney

i admit i DO talk about ppl behind their backs... but she has to notice everyone talks about her behind her back... SAME AS EVERYONE ELSE IN JOHN JAY!

and a few days priror from this day about a week ago... i had one up about marisa, brittany and i a 3 way conovrsation

they made all of my friends go against me

so really... this is a true story, i cant take this anymore, if makes me gag, Also makes me cry. I litterally have 1 friend, and i dont know if she will go agianst me, and ill be friendless.

I cant make new friends, everyone went against me, im in 7th grade, 13 f.

im litterally in TEARS now...

i wanna quit life...

my life isnt fair, my gram-gram is dieing, my parents are getting divorced, my sister is going away to college, one of my best friends who lives in NH got cancer.. I have a desiese... i cant take this anymore!!!

HELP HELP HELP HELPPPPPP!

please :) Laurie

I am SOOO sorry hun!! Do not worry cause I promise you things will get better!! Obvi these people aren't worth it if they wont believe you over this girl who is spreading rumors about you! Like the other person said earlier, things completely change around in high school. It may be a while off but it changes everything. Just go and talk to your remaining best friend, your parents, or your sister about everything. Maybe even a school conselor or a teacher you really like. You will feel 10 times better once you start talking to people about all of this. Good Luck and I hope everything turns out to be better soon!!

Rating: 5

thanks, but im getting applications to a different school callled harvey. And do you think people would talk shit after i leave john jay?!

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Hey guys! My name is Leah and I am 15 years old. I'm from Maine where it's always beautiful but for some reason, everyone here wants to leave it. I love playing basketball and just hangin out with my friends whenever I can. I am the advice giver in my group of friends and I always help them out with whatever it is they may need. When I get older I want to be a phyciatrist and have a huskey named Isabella. I don't know why but I do. If you have a problem, I am here for you and wont judge you at all. I never pass up on a question passed to me so don't be shy. I've been through a lot in the past 15 years and I'm sure I will be able to answer a majority of you guys' questions. Hit me up and don't forget to live for the moment. It's the most important thing you can do.