Anyone need advice or just to chat i am hoping to be able to help as many people as possibe. I am also on here to look for advice--hey we all need it! So if you need advice you can get to me as you prefer. Thank you and hope all is well
E-mail: Kam98@rcn.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Age: 27
AIM: sxeys4
Yahoo: sweeteyez4u2c@yahoo.com
Member Since: November 1, 2005
Answers: 157
Last Update: December 25, 2005
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Okay, so I've been talking to this guy for awhile. Lemme point out the majority of my friends are guys. I just like them better - they're easier to get along with.
So this guy is kind of a jerk, but he's not really mean. He just like, teases and makes fun of me a lot. I was talking to him the other night, and I said something about talking to much and joked about him "probably want[ing] to duct tape my mouth and hands" (we were talking on line) and he said "you know, I might just have to take you up on that," and we went into a whole conversation about like, tying me up and he made it like, really sexual.
Then last night I was talking to him and I asked him what he wanted (I meant out of life) but he turned it into a discussion about what we wanted in relationships, and then he asked why I was so curious/interested, and I answered honestly first, saying it was "just something to talk about, and gets me into your head a little." and then said (obviously sarcastic) no, it's because I want you. And he thinks I seriously like him! I can't convince him otherwise, and I totally don't. I mean, I like him as a friend, but that's honestly it.
I don't want him to go around thinking I like him when I don't. So how do I fix this situation? I've tried talking to him about it and calmly explaining that I really, honestly don't like him like that and that I was totally kidding, and he said something like "You can lie to me but you can't lie to yourself."
Yeah, he's kinda arrogant. But like...what would you do?
It almost sounds to me like he likes me, but he specifically said he didn't.
So I ask you, what the heck? (link)
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i know exactly what you mean. The majority of my friends are guys also and all you have to do is blow his words off. you know that you really dont like him and thats all that matters. Let him think what he wants its really not as bad as you may think. just play the game and keep up the conversation but let him think other wise. All that matters is YOU know the truth. You have told him time and time again you dont so your not lieing to either you or him--he is lieing to himself-good luck
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Rating: 5
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You've got a point. It's just annoying, you know? Lol - thanks =)
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