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Ok My So called best friend Amber (as you have probably herd recent stories) beyrayed me!. Well I came to school this morning and she was like "Omg! The worst thing happend this morning! It's even worse than Billie Joe Armstrong Dying!" and I was like "What?" And she said "Plzzzzz don't be mad at me! Plzzz!" and I said "WHAT???" and she said "I woke up this morning liking Kody (MY EX THAT I LIKE!!)." and I was like "What!?!?" and she said "I Don't Know! I just Do!" and to make it worse she asked him out without me knowing and he said he would think about it. So they flirted and they talked and poked each other and Finally she asked him again and he said he didn't know. So she said forget it. And he used to talk to me cause we went for the friend deal and now because of her he ignores me! I Don't Know What I did Wrong!! He used to flirt with me ALL the time. So I made up this story that I Might be moving and when we were walking out to the bus I was like "Its SOOO COLD!!!" and He was like "Its not as cold as its gonna be in ________(the place)." and I was like "Yeah" so..... WTF is up with him! I Never done anything to him! (link)
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I am straight forward and tough but this will help you see what you will not allow yourself to.
You went out with this guy and then broke up. You have no claim to him whether you want him back or not. He is fair game for any female who likes him and he can move on and date anyone he pleases. Is everyone against you? Hell no.
They have moved on since the breakup and he is looking for other people and not you. It happens all the time. Your friend is human and full of hormones. She knew/knows she liked him and cannot hide that anymore. He likes her and they will date. That is fine and again not against you. It does not make her a traitor it makes her someone in love that cannot hide it.
Firthermore, your friends do not need your permission or input on whom they date. Sure it would have been nice if she waited a while etc. but people have moved on. You haven't yet and you must accept he does not want you in a romantic way.
Why are you not able to act like friends? Ask him, ask her. They feel awkward around you and you them. He has moved on, you haven't and it is your friend he is dating.
They do not want to be around you as a couple as you have not moved on in your life, see him as a friend and find someone else. It will be hard to move on I know but you have to get it he is no longer with you, your friend didn't do anything wrong, and you have to find someone else and forget romance as happening with him again.
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Rating: 2
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Whatever, I Don't Need your boring advice to tell me whether he likes me or not.
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