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Q: i am 13/f and my parents have been divorced since i was 2...i live with my mom on weekdays and every other weekend i go to my dads house and spend the night...my mom is remarried and my dad has i g/f that i really like...well last friday was my party so i didnt go to my dads on his weekend. on saturday morning i called my dad and he didnt want to come pick me up..when i got there (from my mom) his g/f was over and they had slept together...my dad asked me if i thought he was a bad person... so i have 2 questions-
1. should i tell my mom about her sleeping over there...becasue i dont really want to go to my dads and if my mom hears i wont have to spend the night at my dads.
2. is it mean for me to not want to go to my dads house...the age is 13 when you get to choose if you go or not but i dont know if i should go.
Sorry it was so long..i will rate high!
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1. its ok if you want to talk to your mom about it, but it would be best if you also talked to your dad. its always good to be able to talk to your mom about things like this, but this kind of situation is between you and your father. its sounds like he would understand if you told him you were not ready to be staying over if she was there too, no matter how much you like her. anyways the point is i think it would be good to tell your mom, its always good to keep her involved, but it would be better if you were the onhe to talk to your dad about it, not her.
2. no it is not mean for you not to want to go to your dads house. trust me i feel the same way. as long as your happy, besides mabye its just a brake you need, and youll want to see him later on.
i hope everything goes ok for you!
..:jenny
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Question rated by L2 moderator
good answer yg
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bio
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hey there! my name is jenny and im from massachusetts. ill be happy to answer any of your questions and i dont know who they are from so feel free to ask me anything. I havnt told any of my friends about this site so if you happen to land here, do me a favor and put it in your profile or send me to your friends so spred it around. thank you!
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Info
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Gender: Female Location: massachusetts Age: 16 Member Since: November 28, 2005 Answers: 59 Last Update: December 3, 2007 Visitors: 3261
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