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Q: Im just gonna get right to the point, i have a really bad porn addicting, and i am getting better at not doing it, but sometimes i fall into temptation and its hard not to do it. Everytime i do it, i feel like i have let God down or i have taken the bible and shoved it in his face and it makes me feel horrible afterwards, i really dont know wat to do, i try to stop but its soo hard, and i just dont know wat to do, please help. and dont give me some stupid answer either, im really struggling with this and i need some concrete advice
Okay.. I got some assistance for this one from a guy friend.

1) Firstly, you need to cut off the source. If you have it on your computer, delete it and don't look back. If you have pages bookmarked, get rid of them. If theres absolutely anything around you that can make you tempted to look at it, get rid of it!

2) Find a different way to spend your time. Possibly a new hobby or something? Take up martial arts or something that requires a lot of energy.

3) Prayer, prayer, and more prayer. Ask God for help, and develop your relationship with Him. Remember, He loves you no matter what. With His help, you can get through this!

4) Talk to someone you trust. Perhaps a close male friend or someone who you can lean on for support. for example, someone who can ask you how it's going, or someone you can discuss your feelings with.

I wish you all the best.






thanx i really appreciate ure advice and thanx for not giving me some dumb answer... god bless

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