Gender: Female
Location: decatur, IL
Occupation: high school student
Age: 14
Member Since: November 15, 2005
Answers: 10
Last Update: April 1, 2006
Visitors: 1693
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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had. (link)
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If you have a b/f thats taking a break with you and going with another girl don't get mad first of all. Thats the point of a break to see other people so I think you should do the same. If you told him you love him and he doesn't talk to you don't take it personal. I think boys just need time to adjust to what they have found out or he's deciding if he feels the same or not. If he loves you back he could be thinking of how to make it up to you or deciding how to tell you. If he doesn't then maybe he doesn't want to tell you that he doesn't feel the same. The point I'm getting at is that you should give him some time to respond like the saying goes if you love something let it go if comes back then thats how you know its for real, or something like that. Then just move on this isn't the only time you'll fall in love there will be many times.
I hope this helps GOOD LUCK! *KookieMonster96*
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thank you for the advice it really helped
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