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Member Since: November 24, 2005
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Last Update: November 26, 2005
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ok so my "buddy" wants me to give him a handjob and i want to also. we are both excited about it, but heres the thing : he told me hes nervous and would feel more comfortable if we did this when our two friends (who are a couple) were hooking up in the same room as us. This is kind of weird for me. I mean, ok i will do the whole public thing but not the first time we do this you know? My question to you guys is, do you have any ideas on how to come to a comprimise or how I can get him to feel more comfortable so its just us 2 in the room? (link)
What I am about to say is very important: Don't get yourself into a situation that you aren't going to be comfortable in. If you don't want to have your first sexual experience when there are other people in the room, then you shouldn't because it may become an embarrassing memory or a regret. Don't compromise your feeling when it comes to sex, because it could end up being a big mistake. Explain to your friend how you feel and that you won't feel comfortable if there are other people in the room for the first time and if he is still pressuring you to do it, tell him to back off. If he can't respect your feelings in such a situation then you shouldn't be doing anything sexually with him.


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