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Q: I just made a new friend from volleyball at school, my best friend is jealous because now i also hang out with my new friend. she says i ignore her but never do...sometime it feels like she's the one ignoring me like shes mad at me. We even had a fight just yesterday but i dont think the problem is solved because she still acts different around me.

Its like She can have other friends but i cant


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This happens a lot, especially with girls. Whether it's a new friend, or a new boyfriend, friends can get jealous pretty easily if they feel replaced. You may have 'ignoring' her, but not consciously. Anyway, now is the time to work things out. Sit your friend down and explain to her that you're sorry she feels this way but you haven't been ignoring her purposely. Perhaps introducing her to your new friend might make her feel better. You should all go out and do something, or at the very least you should do something with your best friend. If she still not happy, then just leave it. It's her problem and she needs to deal with it. Surely you're entitled tohave friends other than her.

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