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Okay...I've realized a couple days ago that I really, really like this boy I know (I'll call him Bill)...and the same day I came to that conclusion, I was told by a very good friend of mine that Bill has something for her...and that she likes Bill too. (She didn't know that I liked him, of course)...Today, I found that they have officially paired up...and I didn't really do a good job of hiding my disapointment, because "Bill" asked me if somebody made me upset...I said "Not intentionally"...he then asked if it was him that had done anything to make me upset...(Did he suspect or know that I like him??)...Now, I'm not sure if I should tell him that I really like him or not, because I do NOT want to cause any discomfort between me and the two of them, because I care deeply for both of them...but I don't want him to feel like he's doing anything wrong, either. I think if I told them (Or just him) "Hey, I'm disapointed, but I still support you guys", that it would (maybe) make things better...

I really need answers fast on this one, guys...

S.

Dear Too Late,
I know exactly how you feel and i really do, that happened to me once.It was with one of my good friends and i liked this guy named josh who was a total hottie and sweet guy and when he sat with us at lunch one day they totally had a spark between them too and the next week he asked her out and she said yes. But the silly thing is that i was the one to hook them up. I know it sounds crazy but here's my answer. Just go up to your friend and tell her exactly how you feel and don't leave anything out tell the flat out truth and tell her that you were hurt but it's not her fault because she didn't know about how you felt. Then just wish them a good relationship just know that God has a plan for your life and that it was just never meant to be. Believe me once you get the truth out instead of it being all bottled up inside of you you'll feel much better. Just know that another guy just as cute and just as nice will come along again your young don't worry.

lots of love,
bubblesamin

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for the empathy and the advice. You're kind words are appreciated.

S.
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