My name is Brianna Handy ... i was born in Collierville, Tennessee but now i live in Gainesville, Florida.. i love hanging out with friends, going to the movies, tanning, softball, parties, and just having fun... anyways, i just started this advice column because i love giving advice.. but i just want people to take it seriously.. so ask me anything..
Website: .bri-ann-uh.<3
E-mail: XoBrIaNnA055oX@netscape.net
Gender: Female
Location: Collierville, Tennessee
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Member Since: November 13, 2005
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I broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years a few weeks ago for my own reasons that I'm not getting into - just know it was for both of us, not just me, that I did it.
It was a bit of a conversation, but one thing I did ask was that he not forget about me and consider me a friend. Since then, he's attempted contact (via AIM) a couple times, and each time it's ended with me in tears and him saying he doesn't think he can handle talking to me just yet.
The thing is, I don't miss him. I'm happy single right now. This is what I need and I'm glad I did it. I feel bad because I know I hurt him, yet he agreed with my reasoning and seemed to think I was right.
Was it wrong of me asking him to keep our friendship? If I don't miss him, why do I always end up crying?
Please, hold off on the chatspeak. You'll get rated down and nobody wants that. (link)
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no, i dont think what you did is wrong AT ALL. its what YOU wanted to do. theres many explanations for why you may be crying.. i mean you obviously really cared about this guy, two years is a long time. it's good that he understands how you feel, and its good that you told him the truth, instead of being afraid to hurt him and not tell him at all, because that ends up worse in the long run. its prolly really tough right now, but since yall dated for so long, im sure if you just give it some space for a while, you will find that a good friendship between you two will start to form.. and it will result in a happy ending..
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