Gender: Female
Location: decatur, IL
Occupation: high school student
Age: 14
Member Since: November 15, 2005
Answers: 10
Last Update: April 1, 2006
Visitors: 1694
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I broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years a few weeks ago for my own reasons that I'm not getting into - just know it was for both of us, not just me, that I did it.
It was a bit of a conversation, but one thing I did ask was that he not forget about me and consider me a friend. Since then, he's attempted contact (via AIM) a couple times, and each time it's ended with me in tears and him saying he doesn't think he can handle talking to me just yet.
The thing is, I don't miss him. I'm happy single right now. This is what I need and I'm glad I did it. I feel bad because I know I hurt him, yet he agreed with my reasoning and seemed to think I was right.
Was it wrong of me asking him to keep our friendship? If I don't miss him, why do I always end up crying?
Please, hold off on the chatspeak. You'll get rated down and nobody wants that. (link)
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You weren't wrong to ask for his friendship you just still like to keep in touch to check up on him like a friend would do for another. I think why you always end in tears is not that you miss him but you still care and it just gets to you. You have realized you hurt him and now it's just kind of hurts you to kno you caused it, but don't worry you'll be just fine.
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