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i'm a guy and was wondering something. as the question implys, i would like to know whether most people put feelings or morality first, and why. my example is pre-marital sex. there must be at least 20 questions on that topic before this one...some say 'do it if you feel ready' while others say 'no because you'll regret it and it's not meant to be that way'. both seem good reasons for or against it. is it both? should you really put your feelings and that of another first, or should you stick to your moral values, reguardless of what others or society has to say about pre-marital sex. thanks, will rate. (link)
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Honestly, I'm in this same kind of situation for a while. My religion, as well as my beliefs, are that sex should be saved for marriage. While I am contemplating whether or not I should stick to this, my heart tells me I should. Seriously, are you ever going to find that "special person". If they're special enough to have sex with, then they should be special enough to marry. If you're not going to marry them, then obviously, they're not the one.
Your moral values are yours. No one can degrade them or take them away from you. I'm sticking with my decision to wait for sex, despite the immense amount of peer pressure.
Besides...I don't really want the pressure of worrying about whether or not I'm pregnant, or if I caught an STD. And you don't want to worry about your girl getting pregnant or yourself getting an STD.
Wait for marriage and uphold your moral values.
With much respect
~RockStoleMySoul~
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