I'm a wild and crazy 14 year old, I've had a lot of rough spots with guys, friends, family, etc. important things in life like that. I'm outgoing and bold, if something needs to be said I will say it without hesitation!
E-mail: babyBgoddess@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Portage, Michigan
Age: 14
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Please only answer this question if you're not mean or a smart aleck, and you're mature. Thanks!
Anyway, I have a friend that I've known for many years. Her parents are going through a divorce. I know she's hurt, and I want to be there for her, but here's the catch.
I've noticed that we're growing apart. She hasn't talked to me for a long time, except for the few times we've talked on AIM, and I started all of those conversations. She hasn't tried talking to me at all, and we haven't talked about the situation, even though she knows that I know about it (She wasn't the one who told me about it). It's been weeks since I've been aware of this.
At first I wanted to give her time, which I have, since I haven't said anything to her about the situation. Now, I'm fed up.
I'm sick of us not talking. She has made no attempt to talk to me, even casually. Like I said, all AIM conversations were started by me. I want to help her, but I can't if she won't say anything to me about it. I just wouldn't feel right starting up a conversation about it because I'm unsure if she is ready to talk about it.
What also irritates me is the fact that we've been friends for so long, and yet she (like I've said) hasn't tried asking for my advice or anything. I feel like I'm not a good friend; like she doesn't feel that she can open up to me because she's embarrassed (or for whatever reason), even though I don't know if that's the case. What I'm saying is that she should know that she can come to me, talk to me and ask for advice, and not be embarrassed.
It makes me sad that I can't be there for my friend, and that she's not talking to me. What should I do? Please help. Thanks so much! (link)
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Give her time I've known my friends for years but when my parents got divored its not that i didnt stil love them its just that i neede time to myself to cool dowm and I DEFINAETLY did not want to talk about it to anyone. Its not that shes embarresed or anything she just wants to put it behind her not talk about it if she can help it sounds to me like you guys are very close, shell come aroudw when shes ready all you have to do is sit and be patient.
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