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Hello my name is chelsey i am a 13/f i have this guy that i really really like and he really likes me and well honestly i have never really made out before and he has a lot of experiance and i don't know how to makeout!!! and he really wants to and i told him i wanted to too. And i mean i do but i'm scared because i don't know how to!!..Can someone please tell me the right way!! and not what to do and what to do!!!..PLEASE!! ~*I'LL RATE REALLY HIGH!!!*~

Thank you very much!!,

love you xox,
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At your age girls and guys are just getting over the " Boys (or girls are YUCK" stage. I have no idea how he can have this much experience. At your age you are not required to know all of this stuff. He probably knows that too.

I would be honest and tell him I really want to try this with you and I like you but I have no idea how to do this. Asking someone more experienced to show you what to do is fine. For many guys it's a turn on.

As far as kissing goes it boilds down to instinct. You will know how to tilt your head, follow his action etc as you go. As long as you never stick your tongue down your partner's throat everything is fine as long as you are honest and try and do what you feel comfortable.

Rating: 5

thanks but um actully i've liked guys for a while. and i didn't just get out of that stage where your like ew yuck guys!!. just to llet you know and the vibe that i got from your advice was that you were acting snotty..i'm not trying o be mean but it's true...also umm he's already had sex so yeah he's really experianced so don't say he's not..okay well whatever thanks for the advice.

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