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E-mail: Kam98@rcn.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Age: 27
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Member Since: November 1, 2005
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I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.
Question is: how should I go about handling this?
Should I bring it up to HIM first?
Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?
Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?
I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :( (link)
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Ok first off he LIED to you. He has a coommitment with another women-he is married. You dont want to be in the middle of this. Say they would end up getting divorced and here you are the middle girl--he will do the same thing to you. You just need to tell him i found out you are married and say you have a wife-go home to her. I would definetly not get in the middle. No i would not tell his wife--just leave the man and thats it-dont be the one to tell her--she will evenntually find out and he is the one who will suffer,not you. It is a shame but he is no good for 1 he is a liar and 2 he is a cheater. Now the other thing is if you dont mind--think of the wife. How would you feel if you were married to him and he was with someone else and you didnt know--you would be heartbroken. But no it is not your place to tell her. Maybe say to him he needs to tell his wife and of course he will say no--that just proves he is no man at all and in the end he will get what he deserves. Hope i could help keep me posted and if you need anything else let me know
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Thank you sooo much for your response!! I really apreciate it, and I will definitely think about your contribution!! :)
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