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I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.



Question is: how should I go about handling this?

Should I bring it up to HIM first?

Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?

Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?



I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :(

Hey okay first of all if anyone finds out you guys had sex then he would be the won charged because he's older then you. anyways the best to do and what i would do it end the relationship with him and if you can try to contact his wife in person. Yeah I know what if she hurts you or something but let her know the true that you didn't know he was married and thats why you choose to leave the picture. Then from there just let them take care of their problems. hope i helped. anything else let me know. take care. =] x3SweetStar.

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