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I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.



Question is: how should I go about handling this?

Should I bring it up to HIM first?

Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?

Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?



I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :(

Look at it this way.
Even if he chooses you over his wife for some miraculous reason, he'll probably end up cheating on you, because he cheated on his wife. Once a cheater, always a cheater, and sometimes it takes a while to figure that out.

I'd just tell him off, and tell him if he wants to be an ass about it, and harrass you, that you'd be more than glad to tell his wife about your little escapades.

Hell, maybe you can get some money out of him for the tape.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you sooo much for your response!! I really apreciate it!! Cute idea about the tape, too. ♥ :)
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