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15/sophmore/female.
I have been with my boyfriend since feb. 2nd 2004. yes, 2004, not a typo. He has always gotten, uneasy (i guess thats the word) when i talk to or hang out with other guys. Me and my boyfriend go to different schools. Well I talk to this guy from my summer job, and he is 21, and in college. My boyfriend is 17, and i am 15. And my boyfriend is on drumline, and so I am so used to him not getting home until 6:00. I get home around 3:30. well, he doesnt have drumline anymore, so he was home today. and i didnt call him. so when I did, he didnt sounded, not mad, but upset, i cant describe it. and he asked if i was online, and i said yes. and then he asked if i was "talking to that twenty year old " and i said yes, and i was talking to Elise too. And he said "I'll call you later" and i asked why. and then i cant remeber the rest, it was really short, and then he hung up. and didnt say bye. so i called back, no answer. i called his cell, no answer, so i texted him saying that im sorry and that he cant get mad at me for talking with my friends and that i love him (being my boyfriend) in a way that i could never love anyone else.
My boyfriend and i do have silly fights alot. but this one is stupid, i mean, this guy is 6years older than me. I would never date him. He is a good friend,sorta like a brother to me.
did i do anything wrong?
My boyfriend and i just got over the whole "cant hug the opposite sex" thing. he used to get upset when i did that. keep that in mind.
What should I do? What should i say? should i call my boyfriend? text him?
any advice is welcome.
if you need more info, just ask for it. thank you.
-Kelsey- (link)
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Okay. I know that your first impulse is to keep on calling and calling and texting and texting until he answers. Don't do that sweetie. You should text him, say "You need to realize that I love you, and only you".
nothing else. and send it. If he responds, so be it. You don't have to explain to him what you explained to me. You have a right to talk to whomever you choose. If he keeps on with this controlling manner, then Im sorry to say, even though you've been going out so long, it's only going to get worse. He may get physical.
I know that you're thinking "oh he would never hurt me" but honey, some guys can get extremley jealous. If this persistent act of jealousy keeps up, you need to say goodbye.
Good luck honey.
PS. I've been in this exact situation before, so I know how to approach it. Send me a message if you need anymore help darling .
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Thank you soo much! I'll add you as a favorite. My user name on here is k2204.
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