hey my name is Sam and im just ur typical teenage girl struggling with boys, friends, school, family, and the drama of high school. dont be shy to leave on in the inbox ill answer just about anything :)
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Well I'm 16 turning 17 in less than two weeks. I had been dating this guy for almost 4 months, and our anniversary was coming up in less than a week. I had already made plans with him and his family for Thanksgiving and me and him were doing amazingly well. Then about one week and a half before prom he started blowing me off to hang with his friends all the time, and he kept lying to me. I was afraid he might be cheating and because of the immature way he was acting we started fighting alot. Then came prom night. We were dancing, laughing, having a good time, and he kept telling me how much he loved me. Then after prom he told me to go straight home because he was staying at his "friend's" house, whom had a 16 year old slut of a sister, and she kept eyeing my bf at prom, and not paying attention to her date at all. Well I didn't want him to go, because he promised to hang out with me after prom, but I had to go so I did. All that night I cried myself to sleep and when I woke up he finally called me. I came over and he was upstairs on his bed crying. I came over and asked what was wrong and he said he was "just thinking". Finally he spit it out. He said he needed space and wanted to take a break because his schooling was bad, us fighting was stressing him out, and the fact that I wouldn't let go of some of the mistakes he made in the past. I have this awful feeling he cheated and it hurts so bad to think that he would do that. His whole family is pissed at him because of this and I don't know what to do. I can't stop crying because I feel so betrayed and hurt. I'm afraid that if he comes crying back to me that I will take him back. It's so hard to see myself without him and actually feel happy, because we hung out so much, and I got so close to him and his family. He's like no other bf I have ever had, and it hurts so bad to let him go, even though I know I have to and it will be better in the end. Can someone please tell me anyway that I can stay strong, stop crying, and get over this guy, because I cannot take all the pain he has out me through, and I know I deserve better. I feel that he is stringing me along and it hurts so bad to feel like that. Someone help please. (link)
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if this guy is hurting you then hes not worth it, and if its meant to be then if will work out in the end. thats the best advice i can give you. me and my bf used to fight all the time, and then we took a break, and when we got back together we were closer then ever, so maybe a break is just what you need. if he really loves you, then hell realize that you what he needs and hopefully understand that he needs to treat you better. as far as taking you mind off of him for now, just spend a lot of time with friends and going out doing stuff you couldn't do when you had a bf. hope this helps! ♥
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Thanks for the advice. I've been able to stop crying and get over him. And I found out he did cheat on me. When I came over to drop off his stuff, his borther showed me pics he took that night of prom after I went home. And they were with him and her all over eachother. After seeing that I stopped getting so upset and focussed on my friends, family, and guys that support me. Everyone has been there for me through this and it is still going to be hard not to want to punch her and him in the face when I see them together. But karma will come back to him, so I have no worries. It was wrong what he did to me, and even if he doesn't act like he regrets it right now, I know he will miss me someday and I won't be there for him. It will just take time to get over what he did.
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