Gender: Female
Location: Australia
Occupation: customer service consultant
Age: 20
Member Since: December 6, 2005
Answers: 18
Last Update: December 28, 2005
Visitors: 1675
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Okay, I'm 20, I've never had a boyfriend, and I've had this nagging (We'll call it "Women's intuition) feeling that a friend of mine really likes me. I'm pretty sure he likes me because of the way he treats me. I could go on and on about the signs, but there's way too many of them...see, I don't feel the same way about him...I'm terrified that any day he's gonna' say, "by the way, I really like you and wanna' be your boyfriend" in the middle of a conversation...I've politely declined several boys before, but this one is especially hard, because I consider this boy to be one of my best friends...like a brother. And breaking his heart is the last thing I wanna do. Even though it's unavoidable if in fact he does like me, I would like to know the least painful way to respectfully say "no thanks"...
Thank you!!
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If your definetly 100% not interested, then just let him know if he confronts you..
To maybe test him, pretend that you met a guy somewhere and see what his reaction is like..
If he gets angry/jeleous then theres your answer
Dont lead him on, and make it quite clear that you only see him as a brother..
Guys come and go , Friendships lasts forever.
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Thank you so much for your advice! ^_^
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