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um....ok im 14 and im pregnant! my mom keeps on asking who the dad is but i dont even know....ive had sex 3 times and with 2 different guys...the first one was some guy i met on the internet about 24 AND the other guy i had sex with twice and he is 49 yrs old....i know there is tests to figure it out....but i dont know where to get that...at a hospital i guess....how do i tell my mom who the guy is anyway is what im asking...its either a 24 yr old or a 49 yr old....what should i do!!!!!???? please help... i will rate with anything (link)
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hey well it depends when did you find out you were pregnant, also if the first time was about a year ago and the second time was about a month ago it would probobly be with the guy who had sex with more recently also if your not obvious like no round stomach yet and have some of the symptoms like delay in period, swollen/tender breast, tierdness, backache, headache, morning sickness, frequent urination, and food craving it would depend. you should really go to the doctor and get an estimation on when you got pregnant or when th baby was "made". then by the date you would know which guy is the father. for what to tell your mom, just tell her the truth, lieng about something like this is not the rite thing to do.
not to be a bitch or whatever but why, i could understand if it was with someone your age but 10 even 30 years older why? its like having sex with your father, atleast for the 49 year old. i could understand you were anxious sure but why with someone that old? thats rape, and especially with someone you met online? did they know you were 14, did they know you were atleast underage. i know its harsh to hear and your probaly thinking "its not your life, you dont know what im going through, so STFU" but i do understand what your going through the presure and all, maybe not even the presure, the urge, but that doesn't make it right to have sex with someone who is old enough to be your father. and yes, it is wrong, grows, and disgusting but hey its your life and to others what may seem grows may not to you. i just hope that you didn't do it to pruve something to someone, or to just do it. good luck with everything.
xO. jessica
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