Member Since: October 3, 2005
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Last Update: October 29, 2005
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My ex and i have been broken up now for a year. He jumped in a relationship 1 week after we were supposedly over,(very long story). 5 mos. into their relationship, he was telling me that he still missed what we had, that he loved me and didnt want me to hurt him (being with other guys) that he thinks about me all the time, and dreams about US! i never gave into my feelings to him since our breakup, (because of the fact that he had sex with this 14 yr old the 2nd date, and ive ahd a hard time thinking about being with him) A year later and i still have alot of feelings for him, and i want to let him know, but not be so blunt. Hes still with his gf, and i really dont know how he feels about me since he told me how he felt 5 mos ago. Im not just gonna come out and ask or just pour out my feelings. We're both seniors, and i want to ask him to exchange pictures, but i dont want to do this at school when hes with "her". I want to do this alone, and i also want to get him to open up to me again!
Please no immature advice!!!
Ive been going back and forth on this for a year now and i realize that i want him. I never got involved in another relatinship, but i do have lots of guy friends, but thats all they will ever be to me. It took me 3 yrs to fall in love with my ex, and my heart doesnt want to be with any1 else.
Remember>he has a gf and i need to do this very consciously, and take things slow!!!
Thanks!! (link)
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Okay u gotta be kidding me hes a senior n he had sex with a 14 year old ON THE SECOND DATE? well this isnt any of mu business but seriously did you even ever have sex with him? okay i understand that you like/love him but if he could go out with another girl and fuck her shortly after you two were goin out for a year i think that he is using this girl and he doesnt really know how he feels about u! if you love him tell him hopwfully you two can work it out but you also have to talk to him about how he rushed into a relationship shortly after yours and how that hurt you,hope i helped ~mj
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We sort of did it, but not full blown sex(dont really want to explain) I know this is hard for people to understand, but my bf cried alot for me.(no hes not a baby) hes very sensitive.(at least w/me, hes not like that w/her) I hurt him by rejecting him when he asked me back out, then told me he had to take another girl to homecoming.(i was so hurt he would even consider that)anyway, he cried when i told him no, then we both cried. After that is when my world fell apart. He was so hurt that he did what he could to try and get over me. We had a thing for each other since 7th grade. Thats why i dont think he truly loves his gf. How can you possibly love a girl that spreads her legs for any guy that pays alittle attention to her (she had a bf at the time too)
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