(Sorry this is so long)
I have a crush on this guy, and I have for a while. Like...ever since school started. I was doing this psychic board thing (Kinda like an oija board) and usually I never believe those things, but it kept insisting that he liked me, too.
So I kinda went along with it still not believing it, and kinda watched what he did around me. I started talking to him online and he gets really nervous and doesn't know what to say and won't talk a lot. In school, he looks at me and stretches in the middle of class and he'll accidently touch my leg or my desk or something and pull back his hand, blush, and say: "Oh, I'm sorry." And I always laugh at my jokes, because if I don't he'll look back at me and then kinda bow his head.
Anyways, my friend has had a crush on the guy since she was in Preschool. She's in 8th grade with me now. She's really jealous because I keep telling her I think he likes me, and finally she told me how much she likes him, and how they used to be best friends but then he became popular and they grew apart.
So whenever I talk about him she gets really jealous and hurt and yells at me to stop talking. I'm afraid if I go out with the guy she'll have a nervous breakdown, or be afraid to hang out with me anymore.
So my two questions:
1. Do you think this guy likes me? If so, should I ask him out?
2. Do you think if he does like me, SHOULD I ask him out? Or should I be considerate of my friend? Because she said she's never going to actually ask him out, 'cause she knows he would say no, but she doesn't want me going out with him.
What should I do?
Thanks!!! ♥
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There is a good chance that he might like you, and the only way to find out for sure is to ask him, but I do think honestly that you shouldn't go out with him if he does like you because friends are far more important than boyfriends, and i don't think that this is worth losing a friend. I've liked somebody for three years and i know that if i knew one of my friends liked him and thought that he liked her i would be mad because you just don't do that to friends. I know that you can't help who you like, but I would suggest not talking about him as much in front of your friend. Hope I could help!
-Mallory
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Thanks a lot. I know I should put my friends first, but I know that if it was vice versa she'd go out with him even if I had liked him for a long time. Anyways, thanks again!
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