Member Since: September 20, 2005
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Last Update: October 25, 2005
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Okay, so I'm in a bit of a weird situation. I haven't been in this situation since ninth grade, and I'm in college.
So my friend likes this guy...and this guy likes me...
Where I am is, I'm TRYING actively not to like this guy because I don't want my friend to get hurt, but he's talking to me and hanging out with me more and more, and I feel like I'm losing my battle.
We started hanging out because he and I have one HECK of a lot in common - like, it's scary. We all went out once and we ordered the same thing...in unison. Lol...
Yeeeeeeah.
So, um. I guess my question is, what do I do? My friend likes him, and he likes me, and I hate to admit it, but I'm starting to kind of like him, too.
I won't tell her I like him because, for one thing, I teased her ENDLESSLY about liking him, and I'd never hear the end of it. For another thing, that would cause such awkward friendship crap...I have, however, kind of half admitted to him that I'm starting to kinda like him...
So help me out, guys! (link)
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Well. This is what happened to me and my boyfriend and my best friend.
My boyfriend, let's just call him Josh, used to like my best friend, and let's call her Brittany. Anyways, he asked her out, and she said no, even tho she liked him because they went to different schools. And she still liked him quite a bit.
Well, she went away to visit her family for the last month of Summer, and him and I started talking. A lot. And before either one of us knew it, we liked eachother..more than you can ever imagine.
When she got back from her trip, I told her everything he and I had said to eachother, and that we liked eachother. And yes, she started to cry..but she wasn't angry with me, she was angry with him. Which I don't really understand still to this day. But anyways, so one day she called him up and told him she doesn't want him to like me, that we can be friends, but she doesn't want him and I to be anything more.
Of course, he didn't take it lightly, and neither did I. But I just kept it to myself.
But I realized, she had her chance and she turned him away. Just because she likes him doesn't mean he's never gonna like anyone else ever again.
So, I think that if your friend is truely your FRIEND, she'd want both you AND him to be happy.
You can't force people to like you, and people need to learn to live with that.
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Thank you. I'm just gonna have to see how it plays out. =)
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