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Ok. this year I am trying to be friends with everyone. there is this one girl i had a crush on 7 years ago and when everyone found out they made fun of her. Part of my conscience says she hates me now. I would like to start over just as friends, but, she's avoiding me and I am too nervous to talk to her.
What should I do?
I will give you five stars if you try. (link)
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First off, I wouldn't recommend being friends with everybody. It's way harder than it's worth. Be friends with the people who deserve it and who are willing to put equal effort into maintaining a friendship.
About the girl, you've gotta temporarily suppress the nerves. As soon as you talk to her and it's out of the way, then you'll realize how easy it was and the nerves will disappear. But you've gotta do it. She's definitely not going to approach you about it, so if you want to talk to her, you've got to make the first move.
Just boost your confidence, and show it in your movements. You won't get far if people can see that you don't even believe in your self. Walk up to her and just be upfront and honest. Tell her you're sorry, tell her that you'd like to make it up to her, say that you'd like to start over from the beginning, as acquaintances, and then hopefully friends. Make sure that she really was just nervous, and she doesn't hate you. If she does hate you, forget everything I said. At that point, tell her you're sorry and that you'll leave her in peace now, walk away, and hope that she comes to her sences and comes back to you later(that's actually how I got with my current gf; she hated me about a year ago).
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Rating: 5
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wow thanks. Thats probably the best advice i heard so far!
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