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Well I have a new boyfriend and my best friend is acting really weird like she’s saying that I am a leaving her for him but I m not!! What the hell is her problem? Why is she saying this I mean he’s a new boyfriend and its that honeymoon stage where your excited aand she doesn’t understand and I hate the way she’s acting like today in the library I she wanted me to go to her class for 10 min. and I was with my boyfriend and I said no because that’s stupid why would I go to her class when she’s acting like this? Im really getting annoyed with her. Please help!!

She's obviously jealous.
It appears to me you've been cutting out time with her for time with your boyfriend. That's really, really, a bad thing. I know things seem great with your boyfriend, but if you don't spend time here, and there with your friend she'll become disgruntled, and won't want to be your friend anymore.

My advice is to just see her when she'd like to occassionally. I'm not saying to give in every time. Just like those ten minutes you said though... Spend the ten minutes with her, and then go back to your boyfriend.

Look at it this way, let's imagine you don't have a boyfriend nor the experience of having, and then your good friend gets one, and chooses him over you every time... it's gonna hurt your feelings. It'll hurt everybody's feelings.

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