Just your average nice girl next door. Married the love of my life at 24, widowed at 29.
I love cats and sailing and get to the beach as often as I can.
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sorry it's so long, and please look at this in an open-minded manner, and i'm not looking for answers that say you're waiting for marriage so i'm a slut. i'll rate high if you tried, and low if you're ignorant.
my ex-boyfriend broke up in august and aren't dating exclusively, but we still hook-up from time to time. hooking up meaning having sex. we had sex today, and then i went to the movies with one of my close guy friends. we went back to my guy friend's house and we had sex. i really want to forget it ever happened and not tell anybody, though. the guy promised he wouldn't tell, and i trust him. the thing is, if it gets out somehow, and my ex-boyfriend finds out, he'll hate me. should i tell him or just let it slide? by the way, i'm on birth control and i only have sex with a condom. (link)
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ok... well sometimes that happens (2 guys in a short period of time) and it's good that you use a condom every single time - right? Don't tell the ex- he doesn't need to know that information it would only hurt his feelings and insult him. I'm a firm believe in "what they don't know, won't hurt them" You have to think about how you felt and if your ok with casual sex (hooking-up) that's one thing and it can be ok as long as you are safe. But consider the long range... someday when you are older do you want to look back and think you had sex with x number of guys, etc.
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