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sorry it's so long, and please look at this in an open-minded manner, and i'm not looking for answers that say you're waiting for marriage so i'm a slut. i'll rate high if you tried, and low if you're ignorant.

my ex-boyfriend broke up in august and aren't dating exclusively, but we still hook-up from time to time. hooking up meaning having sex. we had sex today, and then i went to the movies with one of my close guy friends. we went back to my guy friend's house and we had sex. i really want to forget it ever happened and not tell anybody, though. the guy promised he wouldn't tell, and i trust him. the thing is, if it gets out somehow, and my ex-boyfriend finds out, he'll hate me. should i tell him or just let it slide? by the way, i'm on birth control and i only have sex with a condom.

You know...strangely enough...this has happened to me. Seriously.

This girl, and I broke up, and after two months of semi dating me and this other guy, she had sex with him while she was on birth control, and he used a condom.

Well, that happened in July, I believe, and I didn't find out til last week. I guess she didn't tell me, because if she did, she figured I'd be done with her which is true...but now that I found out a few months later, I really don't care.

But honestly you should tell him, because people shouldn't lie about their sexually history. That's one of the things you shouldn't keep secret from your partner(s).

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(Rating: 5) i really think i'm going to tell him. it still feels like i cheated on him, and i'm a really truthful person. thanks for your help.
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